surmo13 wrote:
Just keep in mind, i replied to a question that had nothing to do with you and you decided to start this, if you don't think he should be allowed back in the league, i get that and i understand that's a completely legimately opinion to hold, but your the one in here brow-beating me because my opinion is 'wrong', so that's why i'm arguing my side.
So a person must serve jail-time for their crimes before you're okay with them coming back, even if a judge has deemed jail not necessary? odd way to qualify, but alright.
You seem to think the only punishment incurred was monetary, but in a plea deal to avoid jail-time Lodge was ordered to complete 200 hours of community service in Australia, receive alcohol abuse and anger treatment, abstain from alcohol and illegal drugs, submit to testing and avoid another arrest, all of which must have been complied with condering it's 2 years later and he hasn't been jailed.
i'm not defending anyone or anything but my opinion - that a man should not be judged for the rest of his life by mistakes made, especially in the developing stages of adulthood, if he's legitimately remorseful for his actions and some-one decides he has a lesson to teach and something to offer to see his debt to society repayed. If hes betrays that lifeline, then we know he hasn't and will learn nothing and that's when ex-communicating him from the NRL becomes the only option, but until then i'd rather hear 'Broncos player Matt Lodge is using his platform to spend time in the community warning young men of the dangers of alcohol and drug abuse' than 'disgraced former NRL player Matt Lodge relapses and is sentenced to jail time'. You will not get a differing opinion from me no matter the player or club involved.
I'm sorry, has there been a situation since Oates where some-one was knocked unconscious and play was continued? i must have missed it...
And yeh, i was a fan of Blair's work in defence, back when it wasn't illegal and just ruffled feathers because your precious halfback couldn't test the line without having a finger laid on him, but i soured on it this year as the hits became later and later to the point where it was actually dirty, the only reason you bring that up is because i've said all this already, but you being you, just decided to focus on the bit that was convenient...
as an aside: i'm finding it a bit bizarre that's twice i've challenged your opinion of Packer, and twice you've deflected to 'just google the public opinion'
1. Its a public forum, you post something anyone can reply to it. If you want private discussions, slide in a DM. I dont think your opinion is wrong, as I said a few posts back "Anyway mate, all good, we have differing opinions on some aspects of this whole scenario." How am I "brow beating" you? Its a debate on a forum. That is what it is for. If you dont want your opinion argued, dont post mate.
2. The point of the jail comment is, he was locked up for 12 months, he did his time playing lower grades. It seems like Packer has paid more of his debt to society back than Lodge has. Thats just IMO. I dont know what crime is worse, but IMO, anything that has women and kids involved is pretty fucking heinous (que Ryno with his fairy tale). And no, I dont think that every one who does something wrong should go to jail, especially if a judge hasnt sentenced them to jail - but surely something like this deserves prison time? I mean, shitloads of people were calling for fergo to go to jail for what he did. According to the law, for a first time offender - no one in australia would go to jail for that crime (as fucked up as that is). Is what he did worse that what Packer did? Is what he did worse than what Lodge did? All are pretty fucked up, but in reality - violence is generally the thing that tips a time into jail time. If lodge did it in australia, would he have got a sentence for what he did? I think so.
3. Thats all great to see, but is barely a slap on the wrist. The real punishment is the money side of it.
4. He should be 100% judged on what he did in the past. That doesnt mean he is held at that level for the rest of his life though, but its always there and he is always associated with it. We then look at his steps forward in the future and what he achieved down the track. As I said, I hope he rehabs and becomes a moral citizen. We agree on this bit.
5. So you only blow up when people are unconscious, not for all dangerous head knocks. Cool.
6. I bring up blair because you are a "champion for player welfare" now, and you didnt blow up about the late as fuck hits he has been doing for years. You actually supported it. Good to see ya tune changing now that he is no longer a bronco
7. I dont know what my opinion on it was back then (and opinions are allowed to evolve and change over time just as yours seems to have with Blair, now that he is no longer a bronco player lol) - I would hazard a guess to say that I didnt really have strong feelings about it back then, or if I did, I didnt post them on this forum. If you asked me now, I would say that he should have been deported when he got out of jail. Why should a bloke who committed a crime like that be allowed to live in australia when he isnt from here.