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    Post by Honeysett Thu May 24, 2018 1:43 pm

    Krump wrote:
    You're a deadset champion for still having this attitude despite your own issues. Kudos to you!

    Thanks mate, I really appreciate that.

    My job was to invest into these people and I do that on a professional and emotional level so it does hit hard that they're going through a tough time - so while my decision can wait and I can cherry pick roles because of my seniority they don't have that luxury so the last thing I'll do as my role is to set them up for the future - that way I can know that I've done all I have for the team.
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    Post by filthridden Thu May 24, 2018 1:50 pm

    Honeysett wrote:

    Either way I look at it there's always a positive outlook on it.

    I'm a really positive person and always find I land on my feet no matter what happens so I'm not really too concerned to be honest.

    Like you said though heaps of scenarios.

    I could travel for a little bit to places that I want to go to.

    I can be completely debt free and not worry about anything and still live comfortably without a job for a while.

    I could save all the redundancy and just take any job in the meantime until I find out exactly what I want to do.

    I could take it to the casino and put it all on Black.

    I could go to uni and study and come out of this better in a few years.

    Plenty of options, not all of them good but positives to everything.

    Investing is another option. Whether that means housing, ETFs, Shares, Super conts, Crypto, etc is up to you.

    What will you wish you had done in 5 years time? 10? 30?
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    Post by Honeysett Thu May 24, 2018 1:54 pm

    I have a very easy going philosophy with life.

    I just want to be happy. Money isn't the be all and end all. I can be happy without money - in fact the things that make me the happiest don't cost a thing (surfing/dog)

    So when it comes to thinking about what I wish I would have done in that time-frame, I would just wish that I was happy.
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    Post by Krump Thu May 24, 2018 2:57 pm

    I think you should just put up a poll on here with the options you listed and go with the majority. Being the fiscally responsible bloke that I am I'll be voting put it all on black
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    Post by Honeysett Thu May 24, 2018 3:36 pm

    Krump wrote:I think you should just put up a poll on here with the options you listed and go with the majority. Being the fiscally responsible bloke that I am I'll be voting put it all on black

    I downloaded a roulette wheel app, put it all on Black and it came up Red. Know of anyone hiring?
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    Post by Mearcats Thu May 24, 2018 6:16 pm

    @Finch, absolutely nothing wrong at all with wanting your own time and space to an extent. Even if it is for the washing! I am OCD as fuck when it comes to my housework and my schedules around it. I know (and can see from some posts here) that others aren't but I vacuum twice a week, mop once a week and wash for the bride and I the minute the laundry basket is full. Fortunately that usually comes about on a Saturday morning. Perfect. But that's just the way I am. And before people crucify me for it, no, I don't let it affect my social life.

    I think the important thing from your perspective (to ensure yourself that you've done nothing wrong) is to be sure in yourself that she knows how important she is to you. You don't seem like the kinda bloke to go willy nilly pissing 3 months of you're life up a wall if you're not invested. Does he understand that? If she knows the importance you place on your time then she should a) understand that you requesting a little time and space is in now way you walking outta a relationship and b) realise that because time is so important to you that respecting it should also be important to her if she's keen on you.

    If you can honestly say that she understands that then no, you ain't in the wrong mate. If she doesn't, however, then maybe that conversation needs to be had and rather quickly.

    @Honeysett, glad you are making decisions like a functioning adult despite the adversity you're working through at the moment bro. I respect the decision to stay, especially for the pooch. I'd kill to have a dog again but hate kenneling the poor thing and am rarely even home to be able to have one. One day. Good on ya though. As for work, seems like you're making the right decision. And by the sounds of things you should have no worries finding a job! Wanna move to China? I have a business that could definitely use somebody with those attributes and has an interest in people! Lol. But seriously, businesses/companies worldwide often look more at your personal attributes then your resume so I'll wager that you land on your feet no worries at all mate.
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    Post by standard-issue Thu May 24, 2018 7:13 pm

    Let's not forget Honeysett still has a few years left in him if he decides to go down the Hand Model track. Once ya 40 but mate they throw you on the scrap heap so make haste while the hands are silky. It's a big commitment and a cut throat world, but I reckon you can handle it...
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    Post by Honeysett Thu May 24, 2018 7:20 pm

    @mearcats appreciate that mate. Without sounding like a cockhead, because of my transferable skills I won't ever struggle to find someone to take me on. I've already had a number of enquiries about my services already which make me very comfortable that I can just wait it out. I'm not going to struggle so I'm not concerned about me. It may have come at a great time, I can start a new role with a new company while my girlfriend does her thing in America and time will fly by. Life has been good to me so there's no need to stress, I'll land on my feet because I'll make myself land on my feet.

    @SI the hand modelling days are over. With a girlfriend now I don't umm use as much moisturiser as previously and they're just not AS pretty.
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    Post by Mearcats Thu May 24, 2018 7:32 pm

    Honeysett wrote:@mearcats appreciate that mate. Without sounding like a cockhead, because of my transferable skills I won't ever struggle to find someone to take me on. I've already had a number of enquiries about my services already which make me very comfortable that I can just wait it out. I'm not going to struggle so I'm not concerned about me. It may have come at a great time, I can start a new role with a new company while my girlfriend does her thing in America and time will fly by. Life has been good to me so there's no need to stress, I'll land on my feet because I'll make myself land on my feet.

    @SI the hand modelling days are over. With a girlfriend now I don't umm use as much moisturiser as previously and they're just not AS pretty.

    Not only will the time fly by but it will give you a chance to settle into the role, show your work ethic etc. Nothing about it makes you sound like a cockhead mate. Before heading OS I managed quite a few companies and some pretty large ones at that. Eventually moved from hands on day to day operations into the HR side of managing people. I found it rewarding as hell. Especially in the hiring process. Nothing quite like being able to sit with someone for 30-60 minutes in an interview an get a good gauge of how they'll fit into a team etc. Then working with them in that environment.

    I get really invested in my staff. Well, people in general to be honest, but especially my staff. I often see their failings (in a workplace) as my own and that challenges me to help them improve. To find out what makes em tick and what I need to do to get the best out of them. It's kinda like fantasy. You take a gamble on someone, some start out well and others don't. IT's hard letting some go and others it's your own fault for misinterpreting them in the first place so the decision is easy and the blame is your own.
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    Post by Finch Thu May 24, 2018 8:57 pm

    Thanks folks. Well she is still ignoring me, just because I wanted time to myself, despite saying I could hang out with her yesterday when she asked, really confused with that.

    Just going to leave it as it is now. She is either sick of me, making me sweat/hoping I'll come back apologizing (For I dont know what, because I wanted to spend time with myself) or has gone off me. She always wanted to see me though, pretty much everyday, so I'd be surprised if she doesn't want to see me anymore. Kind of a relief though if that's the case as I'm more than happy being by myself.


    Thanks for all the advice folks, love this thread!
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    Post by Honeysett Thu May 24, 2018 9:08 pm

    Mearcats wrote:

    Not only will the time fly by but it will give you a chance to settle into the role, show your work ethic etc. Nothing about it makes you sound like a cockhead mate. Before heading OS I managed quite a few companies and some pretty large ones at that. Eventually moved from hands on day to day operations into the HR side of managing people. I found it rewarding as hell. Especially in the hiring process. Nothing quite like being able to sit with someone for 30-60 minutes in an interview an get a good gauge of how they'll fit into a team etc. Then working with them in that environment.

    I get really invested in my staff. Well, people in general to be honest, but especially my staff. I often see their failings (in a workplace) as my own and that challenges me to help them improve. To find out what makes em tick and what I need to do to get the best out of them. It's kinda like fantasy. You take a gamble on someone, some start out well and others don't. IT's hard letting some go and others it's your own fault for misinterpreting them in the first place so the decision is easy and the blame is your own.

    I've always said that you can't lead people properly if you don't know what motivates them. If I'm trying to motivate you by money and you don't care then you're not going to work hard enough or I won't get the most out of your potential. Find out why people work where they work and where they want to be and help them achieve goals in life not just in the work place, use that motivation that drives them and help them get there. I have never had someone quit because they didn't like working with me, it's always for a higher role and I take great satisfaction put of getting people further in life. I used to have a file of emails that staff would send me either after they resign or a year or so into their new role thanking me for the guidance which I get much more satisfaction out of than most.
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    Post by Krump Fri May 25, 2018 8:06 am

    SI wrote:Let's not forget Honeysett still has a few years left in him if he decides to go down the Hand Model track. Once ya 40 but mate they throw you on the scrap heap so make haste while the hands are silky. It's a big commitment and a cut throat world, but I reckon you can handle it...
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    Post by No Worries Fri May 25, 2018 10:16 am

    Flat earth wins again.

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    Post by Honeysett Tue May 29, 2018 5:55 pm

    So my flight to Bali for a mates wedding is at 8pm WST June 6th. That means that Origin will need to start at 6:15 at the latest for me to see the whole game before the plane takes off. I'm praying for a delay of like half an hour.

    For someone who flies over to majority of Origin games a year this is very difficult for me to handle. I've already told the girl that expect to either jump on board and watch the games or just be ignored for a couple of hours. She's fine with it now until she realises I'm not joking haha.
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    Post by standard-issue Tue May 29, 2018 6:39 pm

    Honeysett wrote:So my flight to Bali for a mates wedding is at 8pm WST June 6th. That means that Origin will need to start at 6:15 at the latest for me to see the whole game before the plane takes off. I'm praying for a delay of like half an hour.

    For someone who flies over to majority of Origin games a year this is very difficult for me to handle. I've already told the girl that expect to either jump on board and watch the games or just be ignored for a couple of hours. She's fine with it now until she realises I'm not joking haha.

    Call in a bomb threat to Terminal 1. Should give you a couple of hours.
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    Post by code delta Tue May 29, 2018 8:23 pm

    SI wrote:

    Call in a bomb threat to Terminal 1.  Should give you a couple of hours.

    LOL. In the mid 1980's I worked in the tax office in Centerpoint Tower in the heart of Sydney. The lowest three floors was a major retail center.
    For a period we'd get evacuation orders because someone had called in a bomb thread. Means the shops were closed down and we all got to spend a few hours relaxing in Hyde Park.
    This happened for once or twice each month for 6 months before they tracked the tax office employee doing it.
    Wouldn't take that long these days.
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    Post by Finch Tue May 29, 2018 9:00 pm

    Does anyone else just feel like their life has just stalled/not progressing? Feels like I'm doing the same stuff now as I was 10 years ago. Same house, same music, same job, same lifestyle.


    How do you get out of this and move forward?
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    Post by filthridden Tue May 29, 2018 9:31 pm

    Finch wrote:Does anyone else just feel like their life has just stalled/not progressing? Feels like I'm doing the same stuff now as I was 10 years ago. Same house, same music, same job, same lifestyle.


    How do you get out of this and move forward?

    Honestly mate you just gotta get started. Even if you don't know which direction to go in, just pick one and see what happens.
    Don't wait for life to happen to you.

    Doesn't have to be a huge drastic change but just pick something that scares you and go do it.

    I moved to Melbourne on a whim after going to Uk/Europe for six weeks on a whim 5 years ago and I've never looked back.
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    Post by Finch Tue May 29, 2018 9:34 pm

    filthridden wrote:

    Honestly mate you just gotta get started. Even if you don't know which direction to go in, just pick one and see what happens.
    Don't wait for life to happen to you.

    Doesn't have to be a huge drastic change but just pick something that scares you and go do it.

    I moved to Melbourne on a whim after going to Uk/Europe for six weeks on a whim 5 years ago and I've never looked back.

    I think my problem is actually doing something in the first place. I just spend my days going to the same websites over and over, playing the same games, same music, all before I go to work in the evening/nights. Feels like I'm just wasting my life *Shrug*

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